Couples Therapy practitioners use a variety of therapy models and intervention techniques to help couples overcome conflicts in the relationship. One of the things we teach couples in conflict is to try to externalize the conflict. The conflict is the enemy, not the people. So when we identify the conflict cycle, we sometimes give it...

Marriage Counselors are often asked by wives to help her create the perfect husband.  No such thing right?  The point is to try to be the best husband YOU can be using your talents and strengths.  I often find that men have leadership positions in their careers.  They are respected in whatever field they work...

We have all seen the 50’s article on how to be a good wife. There is no template/set of rules/list of checkboxes for wives to download, or read about in Cosmo or any other place (except the Bible). What it takes to be a good wife is to respond to your partner’s needs. Every man...

I just saw a cute commercial with a couple on the couch watching TV. The wife is telling her husband that she likes ice cream…and pickles. He is half listening, and she repeats it. Clearly, she is hinting at something important to him. He is trying to watch his show, however, and does not pick...

What is your fantasy? Ladies, here is the question of the day. Do you think of your life this way? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OAfxs0IDeMs. Are you wanting this kind of romantic experience? Is this elusive man existing in your dreams? Can you transfer this fantasy into reality? I think you can. The man you have right now, can...

What about me? Are husbands being taken care of? I mean, in the way they want/need? What is missing in your life? Did your dreams about life after your wedding day fall apart? Did you think about constant sex and pleasure for the days/weeks/years to come? What happened? Did you forget about her perhaps? Maybe...